A Quickie at Work
27 November, 2007
I’m all alone in the office this morning, so I thought I’d take advantage of that, be a bit naughty, and fire off a quick post…
What do you mean that wasn’t what you were expecting from the title?
Today for a change I have some positive things to write about! – I know… I’m looking out the office window for the flying pigs.
+ 1
Remember this post? – An Unceremonious Outing
I was out with my straight housemates/friends last weekend celebrating a birthday. I made my excuses about 11pm and dissappeared “To go and meet some other friends.” ie, I went to the local gay bar. (I’ll write a bit more about this in + 2).
The next day I was meeting up with one of the guys from the first group to go and fly some kites (power kites). After we got back from flying kites, we were sitting drinking coffee in the kitchen to warm up and he casually dropped into the conversation “had you a good time in ‘local gay bar’ after you left us last night?”
Totally casual and nonchalant!
I’m not sure when he found out, but he was at the halloween party…
It was just what I needed, a straight guy that really doesn’t give a shit if I’m gay or straight! Very much a confidence boost.
+ 2
Remember this post? – Flirt
The flirting was somewhat confirmed…
“If I wasn’t with #boyfriend# you’re exactly the kind of guy I’d go for…”
There isn’t a smiley that would adequitely show the grin that was plastered on my face when I heard that (see last post to get an idea).
I still don’t want it to go anywere… but it’s nice to know that even I can have the spidey senses at times!
That was two ego boosts in two days… made me feel better about myself!
Bonza!
Huzzah!
Yaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay! How quickly it can turn around. Just don’t forget that the good things are happening more and more the further you push yourself out of the closet. That also means you notice the bad things more, but best to focus on the good things. And just think, he might not be with the boyfriend for ever…
hey well done Aaron! BTW, fancy a night out at said ‘local gay bar’ Saturday night? a few peeps are heading there, so thought I would extend the invite!